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June 20, 2008
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Critical Mass - Roma 31 maggio 2008
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Recently we moved to a new home closer to my work (when I’m not on maternity leave, mind you), closer to Franklin’s school (living near the friends he sees at school is so so so much better – even if the closest bestest one is moving to Japan in August), closer to the community garden (a billion hoorays for this!). Basically, we walk everywhere now.

Who would have thought that moving to suburbia would free us from the car? Well, I guess our situation has made it so, anyway. Shopping is much closer, the beach is much closer and like I have already mentioned, school and the people we often set up play dates with are much closer. We didn’t really live “downtown” before anyway. We lived “in-between” or "on the bus route" - in the hard to define area where nothing really gets built except for apartment buildings and subsidized housing, really.

One thing Dickson and I have noticed is that when we watch a movie, the volume on the television is 3 notches lower. Everything is quieter here. There are no more sirens screaming down the road and the friendly neighbourhood dumpster divers don’t come all the way up here to gather their goods.

I used to get annoyed when people mentioned things like “idyllic, quiet countryside versus the busy, noisy city” because I love living in a city. Victoria isn’t all that much of a city, I know, and I would move to a bigger centre in a heartbeat – given the right circumstances. I love the action. In the past, I would defend the screaming fire trucks, the excavators and the car alarms. However, there is such a remarkable change now.

I can hear a lawn mower. I can’t remember when the last time I heard a privately owned, hand powered lawn-mower from my own kitchen. These things do make a difference.

I took an environmental aesthetics class once and during one class I remember questioning the unappreciated aspects of city noise – both visual and audio. I defended both graffiti and ambulances. I demanded a world where we become accustomed to the hustle and the bustle. I wanted there to be a world where living so close to each other was okay (even desired) and that people weren’t constantly trying to “arrive” and “feel successful” once they move to the suburbs or the countryside. We can't all afford to live with a green yard and picket fence buffer between us and our neighbours. Thus, we shouldn't set up artificial standards and thrive for this kind of life

However, I get it now. It’s not the hustle and bustle that we need to change. The environmental pollution that is caused by the noise of traffic isn’t what defines a city and it shouldn't need defending. In fact, this is something we need to change – through better traffic planning, bike promotion and communal commuting. Car alarms, fire engines and dump trucks are not a proud badge of city life but a kind of toxin that can slowly wear you out. This is something we need to find a solution for as I’m not so sure that children should be growing up with that kind of beat constantly playing throughout their soundtrack of life.

Posted by Ada
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we just moved to an older neighbourhood and it is near the ravine and oh the quiet. we are outside more because of less car traffic, i sit on our deck, if i had a dog i would walk her more. this is a fabulous post. you have taken the words i didn't know i had and wrote them all out.

xo

Posted by: jenB @ 06.21.2008 7:13 PM | #

I think a lot of this is why we're so happy in RD. It's still a city with all of the city amenities but because it's a SMALL city, we can live in the sort of neighborhood that we like (old, near the convenience of Downtown) but it doesn't have the noise, heavy traffic, sirens, weirdos that we'd grown used to seeing/feeling/hearing/fearing in the equivalent neighborhoods in Edmonton.

It also feels like people are so much more easy going. We'd met more neighbors in one year here than we'd met in several years in both of our Edmonton 'hoods -people are just more inclined to stop and chat when they see me weeding the front or walking with the kids. I feel like we're all looking out for each other instead of Look Out! or I Don't Want To Get Involved.

It reminds me of growing up in a small town and I'm so happy that our kids get to grow up here.

Posted by: Chair @ 06.22.2008 5:43 PM | #

Holy Fuck. This is amazing. This is so well written and really gets to what I feel when I come to a city. I live in a larger town but I don't like it because it's small and there isn't much culture. I want to see the things in a city I don't get to see here. When I went to university in a big city it was amazing. The different kinds of people! I felt so backward with my mouth hanging open at the airport even!

But the city makes me jumpy and I can't handle the noises and I feel like I am too much of a county bumpkin to get used to the city because after a week of visiting my friends I have to go home. I love what you've written. So so so so so so good.

Posted by: Jocelyn @ 06.22.2008 10:06 PM | #


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